No, that's not- My point isn't about you keeping secrets! How do you treat him, Haruhi? How do you talk to him? Do you share how you feel with him? Do you tell him what's bugging you? Do you treat him like a friend?

He may feel like an ex to you, but to him he's being shunned out of the life of the only person he has from home. Do you understand how that must hurt?